Attaining Value

I am who I am. I am who I want to be....
The value of a person greatly differs to the exercise of his human rights. I am referring to the value by which a person perceives the opposite sex. It is that value which is integral in mating because of natural selection. Inherently, we are bound to choose the most suitable mate for us.
So how do we attain this value for us to be able to widen our market in terms of looking for that suitable mate?
First, we should develop ourselves personally. It is not enough that we have the sense of humor that girls usually like. Humor is a good thing but as the relationship progress, humor might not really be enough. Next, there is money. If you think money is not an issue, then you are part of the society of hopeless romantics that would rather die hungry than die a virgin. Money is part of our lives and it makes things convenient. Even though it does not top our list but it certainly has an effect in choosing our mate. A car, watch, cellphone, and that fashionable look would make the opposite sex have that second look on you. Being able to be articulate is up high on the list. But it also goes with education because it is not only "how you said it" but "what you said". And the list goes on...
This is the true face of the dating scene. It is not love that motivates the person to mate but it is being to put yourself in the market, determine your value, enhance it, and find that suitable mate the lives up your standards. It is a game and it is not for the fainted heart.
Nevertheless the true worth of dating is the fulfillment of that fundamental human need for self-development. But if you are looking for love, then you're in the wrong place because if you fall in love, value will be immaterial. You would even negate your value because love is the absence of rationality...
Date if you have to date but love is just around the corner. +++